1. The "Overly Generous" Tita
She showers everyone with gifts, from lotion sets to fruitcake. She’ll make sure you leave the party with a bag full of goodies—even if you politely decline.
How to Deal: Accept everything with gratitude. If you end up with three identical lotion sets, just remember that re-gifting is always an option!
2. The "Fashion Police" Tita
She’ll scrutinize your outfit and offer advice on how to “improve” your style, even if you’re just trying to enjoy your Noche Buena in peace.
How to Deal: Smile and say, "Thanks, Tita! I’ll definitely consider that for next year!" Then, compliment her outfit—flattery works wonders.
3. The "Matchmaker" Tita
This tita has someone she wants you to meet. Whether it’s her friend’s son, a distant relative, or even the neighbor’s cousin, she’s determined to play cupid.
How to Deal: Politely decline and say, "Tita, I’m focusing on my career right now." If she insists, change the subject to something less awkward, like the latest family event or the weather.
4. The "Tech-Savvy" Tita
This tita just got a new smartphone and needs help with every little thing—whether it's setting up her email or figuring out how to send a sticker on Viber.
How to Deal: Patience is key! Guide her through the basics and then gently suggest that she join a tech workshop after the holidays. Bonus points if you can make her feel like she’s already a pro!
5. The "Throwback" Tita
She loves to reminisce about the "good old days" and will remind you of all the embarrassing things you did as a kid, usually in front of everyone.
How to Deal: Embrace the nostalgia and laugh along. Then, quickly steer the conversation toward a positive memory—preferably one that doesn’t involve you dancing in your underwear.